7 Questions

  1. How do I feel?
  2. What do I want?
  3. How is the past coloring my present?
  4. What am I getting out of staying stuck?
  5. What do I need to say?
  6. What agreements have I broken?
  7. How can I be of service?


    Source: Conscious Loving: The Journey to Co-commitment by Gay & Kathlyn Hendricks

    The Hendricks’ propose these questions to couples to rebuild their relationships but I think they are applicable in pretty much all interactions.

    Question 4, What am I getting out of staying stuck? is a very powerful question. Most people don’t want to accept that they are stuck, let alone examine the reasons they are allowing themselves to stay stuck.

    And, as they say, “The power of a question lies not so much in the answer but in the state of consciousness that it opens up.”


    I’ve invented a new word: peopleology.  I did it because I wanted to combine sociology and psychology in an unprejudiced way.

    The other words that would have worked perfectly is politics but we’ve sullied that word with the connotation of government and it still doesn’t quite fit.

    So, peopleology: the study of people both singly and collectively.

    Our 800 pound Gorilla

    When I was first in college, back in 1974, the world’s population was 3.6 billion and already considered dangerously large.  At that time there was a growing concern over the limits to growth, pollution, and sustainability.

    Today, in 2014 (forty years later), the population is over 7 billion and generally conceded to be dangerously large.

    And still, today, there is no one willing to talk about controlling the population. 

    The best we get is the “educate the women” dialog which notes that educated women tend to have fewer children. It’s also coupled with the notion that lowering infant mortality will ultimately cause populations to have fewer children.  All this, of course, is mankind’s way of closing its collective eyes and pretending there is no problem even though it’s been over two hundred years since the Reverend Malthus penned his An Essay of the Principle of Population.

    Malthus predicted that because agriculture grew linearly and population grew exponentially, there must ultimately come a point when the population outgrew its food supply and died off through starvation.  Fifty years after he wrote his essay (1798) the Irish lost over half their population to the Great Famine (1845–1852) in a very poignant and tragic example of what happens when a population’s food supply vanishes.

    Yet, instead of discussing this problem, the world persists in ignoring it. Only the Chinese, with their harsh restrictions on population, have had the courage to tackle the problem to any degree (and notice how their economy is well on the way to out-performing the rest of the world).

    Here we are dealing with global warming –  a direct result of exploding population –  which is affecting our agriculture worldwide and we still refuse to see the writing on the wall.

    Once again (or, perhaps, still) we refuse to look at population as an issue to be discussed and dealt with (as the Chinese have).  Once again, instead, we are waiting on nature to take its course.


    One of the constants of the computer industry (software and hardware) is that it is an industry built upon the mistakes of others.

    Perhaps the best example of this is Xerox with its famous PARC (Palo Alto Research Center) which involved the mouse, the concept of a pointer and the modern graphical user interface (GUI).

    Steve Jobs saw it, Bill Gates saw it, and both decided to copy and expand upon it.  At the end of the day we got the Mac and Windows.  Xerox, in the meantime, decided not to press on it with it declaring that photocopying would always be their core industry.  j(Give them their due, over twenty years after that mistake and Xerox is still in business.)

    Microsoft is now in the process of becoming the latest large software company to commit hari-kari by stupidity.  They’re doing it with Windows 8 (now 8.1).

    Microsoft is a behemoth and has been for a long time.  Its infighting is legendary (reminiscent of the fighting divisions of GM and of IBM) and its intolerance of its users –  its arrogance –  is much the same.  (It does seem to be a constant that those in industry who would commit suicide must first become blindingly arrogant.)

    With Windows 8, Microsoft has decided to take its desktop operating system and cram it into a cellphone space.  Microsoft is stuck on the “one size fits all” framework and so it will die.

    It’s a pity, too, because with Kinect, Microsoft had a chance to take the desktop and turn it into the interface of the future (and then extend that down into smartphones).  That’s what I was hoping from Windows 8, not this “take it or leave it” tribute to mediocrity (the worst desktop user interface and the worst smartphone interface combined).


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